Do you feel sinful when you merely tolerate a person?

I have found in my "older" years that I'm a lot less accepting of things people say and do than when I was younger and still working and had to be "politically correct". Once I was free from that political oppression brought on by the Clinton gang, I was able to assert my real feelings and thoughts, and found that there's a LOT of people I just plain don't like, and I've felt great being able to be so straightforward. But sometimes, with the help of my kids and my wife, I'm brought to think that I've gone "overboard" on my dislike of certain people in that I readily express it beyond what my kids, in their 20's, find they're allowed to do in the still "politically correct" world they must live in to keep their jobs, so, after my initial disagreement with them, I find myself more earnest in my praying that, if I'm wrong in my dislikes, I hope God will let me know and correct my ways. I think maybe He is doing that through my kids, especially my son who is as straightforward towards me as I am to others. Like father, like son I guess. I can only recommend praying earnestly about it. I feel pretty sure that God will let you know where you're going wrong, IF you're going wrong. Trust Him. Like in the Lord's Prayer, "Thy Will be done on earth as it is in Heaven". God Bless you.